JM: Is there anything else you would want a friend or family member to know if they have a loved one going to jail? Aaron: Tell them to keep their eyes and ears open and keep their
mouths shut unless surrounded by people that you respect and
that respect you and that you have a connection with. Don't ever
give anything away unless you are paying someone back or
unless you put a price tag on it because people will take
advantage of you in there in some way or another. Don't be too
friendly with anyone because they are all criminals in there in
some way, shape, or form or they just make bad decisions or in
most cases have really BAD luck. Friendly mannerisms are
considered either a weakness or an excuse for people in their to
think you like men sexually which can come back to hurt you
later on.
JM: Is there anything else you would recommend to a future inmate? Aaron: Take an anger management class as soon as you think you might
be going to jail or at least get into deep breathing exercises and
learn ways to relax. Also consider doing the same after you get out
so you can help keep yourself out of jail. That is all jail is: a group
of angry people that are clouded in their decision making skills.